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Mom of bullied child sues school board

 

 

The mother of a nine-year-old is suing her local school board for what she says is the board's failure to protect her son from bullies. The Kitchener, Ont., mom says the Waterloo Region Catholic School Board hasn't done enough to stop the bullies who repeatedly harassed her son, giving him fat lips, bruises, and stab wounds from a pencil.

 

According to an article in The Record, Kitchener's daily newspaper, the attacks started in September, 2008. The mother was quoted as claiming bullying to be a widespread problem in her son's school, and accused the principal, school trustees and superintendents of not taking her concerns seriously. She says she has written dozens of letters, and even tried working it out with the parents of the kids who were bullying her son. But now her son wants to be home schooled.

 

The boy and his mother are not being named to protect his identity.

 

In what the article described as a possible first of its kind in Ontario, the mother is suing the school board and Region of Waterloo both for $25,000 in damages, the maximum allowed in small claims court.

 

A spokesperson for the school board said this is the first time the region has been taken to court over its anti-bullying program, and an investigation will look into the case to see if the rules were followed when it comes to complaints about bullying.

 

The school board and region can't respond directly to the allegations made by the mother because it is before the courts, according to the article. The board has filed a statement of defence.

 

This is going to be an interesting case to follow. Earlier this month, Ontario became the first province in Canada to require all school staff to report any serious incidents of bullying to the principal. As part of the 'Keeping Our Kids Safe at School Act,' school principals are now also required to contact the parents of the victims of bullies, another first in Canada.

 

But what good is this legislation if nothing happens as a result? The government claims on its website that this new legislation will "make schools safer" and help students "achieve their full potential."

 

But for at least one nine-year-old in the province, school doesn't sound like such a safe place right now. Nor a place he can achieve his full potential. So in what seems like a very un-Canadian move, his mom has decided to sue. Let's see what happens next.

 

(You may also be interested in the story of two Winnipeg moms with bullied children, and another story about an Ottawa situation. )

 

 

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I’ve never seriously disagreed with a school policy...until now

Kathy Dobson

A four-year-old in Dallas has been suspended because he’s refusing to cut his shoulder-length hair. Although the little boy’s long hair is a violation of the school’s dress code- a code which actually dictates the length of a student’s hair- his parents are supporting his decision.

In a televised interview, the school principal claimed the little boy’s long hair to be a distraction to the other students. The boy’s parents claim that school officials are more concerned about their son’s hair than his education. The boy now spends his days in the library, serving an in-school suspension.

This is the kind of news report that makes me wonder which parts of the story we just aren’t hearing about- those missing pieces and facts that would maybe help us ‘get it,’ instead of just shaking our heads in disbelief.

Of course it could also be a simple case of a school actually not allowing a kid to be in the classroom just because his bangs hang in his eyes a bit and his hair touches the top of his shoulders. But I like to think that there’s more to it than that. After all, this is a public school we’re talking about, right?

And it would be just plain stupid to suspend a kid because of the length of his hair, right?

The school’s dress code states that a boy’s hair must be kept out of the eyes and can’t extend below the bottom of earlobes or over the collar of a dress shirt. I’m not sure what, if any, rules they have about the length of female students’ hair.

I don’t think I’ve ever had a serious problem with any of the rules or polices of any of the schools my own five children have attended over the years. I do remember one time starting a discussion at a parent council meeting about all the school dances the school kept throwing for the grade 7s during school hours.

And to be honest, I’ve also never liked ‘On the Wall’ as a form of discipline. That’s where kids are made to face a wall outside of the school during recess time. I can understand and appreciate that sometimes the school needs a quick way to divide and conquer when things start getting out of hand in a crowded school yard. And ‘On the Wall’ can be great, I guess, for a cooling-down period. But I think it’s inappropriate to use it as a way to deal with every infraction of any kind. Like for students who forget to do or hand in their homework.

For the most part, however, I’ve never had a serious concern about any official school policy.

Until now.

Suspending a student- especially a four-year-old- simply because of his or her hair length is just stupid.


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Are kids really better off without homework?

Kathy Dobson

 

It’s every parent’s dream.

Okay, maybe it’s just mine. But when my 11-year-old son Michael came home with a note from his grade six teacher informing parents that she “doesn’t believe in homework,” I think I was even happier than my son.

A teacher who doesn’t believe in homework?

Instead, as she explained in the letter, she believes children need time after school to spend with their families and for extracurricular activities.

No more sudden announcements on a Sunday night from my son that he needs to make a population density map of Canada. Or draw a six-sided brochure about Mars for science class. And it’s, uh, due tomorrow.

I admit, until that letter came home, I had never even seriously entertained the idea that having no homework could be in my child’s best interest. Great for me and their father, of course. But our kid?

Our son in grade eight brings home tons of homework almost every night. I find it interesting how one teacher can say that she “doesn’t believe in homework,” while the teacher in the very next classroom insists that homework is a crucial part of school, helping kids to develop a strong work ethic and self-discipline.

Who’s right? Who’s wrong?

Until recently, I assumed that homework wasn’t debatable. It was just a part of school. At worst, a necessary evil to help prepare kids for high school and university.

But according to a study by two education experts from the University of Toronto, homework doesn’t necessarily help our kids at all. Instead, it can create stress and even lead to “marital problems.”

Prince of Wales public school in Barrie, Ont., has actually banned homework and according to the school’s principal, the students’ marks have been steadily improving ever since. In an interview with CTV’s Canada AM, school principal, Jan Olson, said the ban came after the school did research into the relationship between homework and student achievement.

"We didn't find a whole lot of achievement correlation between those so we decided, 'why do we need to do it then?'" Olson said, adding that the ban has also lead to an improvement in the students' behaviour. However, the students at Prince of Wales Public School still study for tests.

Come to think of it, despite my son’s grade six teacher claiming to not believe in homework, she still reminds the class the night before a test that they might want to review their notes. She also encourages nightly reading and offers a selection of books in her classroom which students can borrow from.

Homework is such a long-standing school tradition, I never really questioned its effectiveness or its impact on our kids. Of course, the fact alone that a school in Barrie banned homework doesn’t absolutely mean that it’s out-dated, ineffective, and possibly harmful to our kids.

But it makes me wonder what else I might be taking for granted about my children’s public school education, and be absolutely wrong about.


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Start planning for university in kindergarten

Kathy Dobson

 

Grade 11 marks don't matter. Going to an elite high school will pay off when you apply for university. And a liberal arts degree won't get you a good job. What do all these statements have in common? According to an article in the Globe and Mail's Canadian University Report, they're all myths.

 

The article addresses many commonly-held misconceptions and beliefs about applying to university.

 

As a parent of two university students, I wish I had been able to read that article a couple of years ago. Heck, I think it should be handed out to parents when our children start kindergarten.

 

Apparently one of the biggest myths when it comes to university applications is that only Grade 12 marks matter. To be honest, I can't imagine too many students actually believing they don't have to bother working hard until their final year of high school. There are always exceptions, of course, but by the time you reach high school, I think you either already have a work ethic or you don't. It's not something you can just decide to suddenly try on for size when you hit Grade 12.

 

In the Globe's article, an assistant registrar at the University of Toronto says that Grade 11 marks do, in fact, matter since, as early as February, universities are choosing their future students - meaning they have to look at Grade 11 marks to make their decisions.

 

Yet, although universities might not be making decisions based on your transcripts from Grades 9 and 10 -  which show all those A's or F's - by the time you reach Grade 11, your post-secondary future could already be decided. Getting into a particular program might require Grade 12 biology, chemistry or physics ... which requires Grade 11 biology, chemistry or physics ... which requires Grade 9 and 10 science.

 

Of course, the decisions you make in Grade 9 aren't necessarily irreversible. Many universities offer introductory courses that are equivalent to the mandatory high-school courses, such as an introductory math or biology course. And entering Grade 12 biology without a background in Grade 11 biology, or Grade 9 and 10 science, isn't impossible. But each decision you make - starting with that Grade 9 science course and ending with that application to a university program - gets harder and harder to change.

 

In a couple of months, my son David is going to have to make some crucial decisions that could affect the direction of the rest of his education. He's currently in Grade 8. Grade 9 is when you decide which path you'll be following for high school - academic, applied, or trade. If he plans to take the university route - which means the academic path - next, he'll need to know if, for example, he hopes to pursue the sciences, since most university programs require specific high-school prerequisites.

 

This means that David will have to know already, at 13, which direction he plans to take in university (of course, assuming he even goes to university). David will be making some decisions that could seriously affect his entire adult life, while still a kid.

 

I've been down this road before. My two oldest children are enrolled in their second year of university. Not wanting to limit their future options, they both took every math and science course they could during their high-school years. It meant they didn't limit themselves when it came time to apply to university.

 

But not every student enjoys math and sciences. Not every student wants to pursue the sciences or math at the post-secondary level, either. And not every student, at age 13, is mature enough to work for the marks they'll need in order to be competitive when it comes time to apply to their university and program of choice, either.

 

The Globe's article said, "In order to get top grades in 12, you'll need to lay a strong foundation in Grade 11." I agree. But I think our children need a strong foundation in place even before they get to grade 11.

 

Starting right from the beginning, as early as elementary school, we need to ensure our kids are developing a strong work ethic all along.

 

Each grade truly builds on the one before in terms of laying the groundwork to build on the higher grades.

 

We're kidding ourselves as parents if, years later, when our child is entering Grade 11 or 12, we believe they'll suddenly somehow turn over a new leaf because now they're in the "important" grade, where marks really matter.

 

(Editor's note: If you're interested in other articles in the magazine, you can download it or read the articles online.)

 

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